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If you are dealing with divorce, joining a good, facilitated, online divorce support group can be one of the best gifts you give yourself. The right group can provide you with safety, connection, resources, convenience, lower costs, answers and the perspective you will need to navigate knowledgeably the daunting transition from married to (healthily) divorced.
If you are thinking about divorce or already “coping” with with it, the right divorce support group should provide an overview of what you must know about divorce — before you decide. And if you’re already divorcing, what you must know to stay healthy and strategic to your most critical goals.
Understanding what stage of divorce you are in — what is coming, and what you can and must NOT be doing — allows you to get organized & prepared (for whether you choose to divorce or not).
For those rebuilding their lives after divorce, the right, divorce recovery group connects you to your possibilities, the who you are becoming. In the company of other women, you learn how beginning again is celebrated, grieved, and more sweetly understood. And especially, why you must leverage The Pause.
Unless you’ve been divorced and experienced firsthand the journey, you can’t fathom this stage, the journey within this journey of divorce, or what happens AFTER.
There is no manual. For the healing.
Shame / SHām/ Noun 1. A loss of respect or esteem; dishonor. Verb 1. (of a person, action, or situation) make (someone) feel ashamed.
“Choice point: When we decide to dispel the shame of divorce our lives begin to take flight.”