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Divorce advice articles include insights about where you are, what you are thinking, what you fear, what’s to come, what you don’t know and, what is waiting for you.

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3 Ways to Handle Divorce and Anger, If Things Are Getting Ugly

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Love and Marriage, horse and carriage ... divorce and anger obviously go together too, right? Well ... at the very end of the season finale of #DivorceonHBO we hear the main character Frances, who is divorcing her husband, leave this voicemail for her husband: “I imagine that, somehow, you didn’t bother to think through this imbecilic move - you simply wanted to fuck me at any cost. But you have made a terrible, awful, IRREPARABLE mistake. And you’ve LOST, Robert. You have lost EVERYTHING now!”
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Divorce Recovery: Cocktail Parties & "Can't Miss" Financial Opportunities

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You're in that divorce recovery place -- post-settlement, but…
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Are You Contemplating Divorce and Secretly Hooked on #DivorceHBO?

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If you are watching "Divorce" and contemplating divorce yourself,…
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#DivorceHBO: It's Not "Basically All Law"

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As I get caught up on #DivorceonHBO, I’m debating whether I…
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#DivorceHBO Episodes 2-4: Kernels of Truth

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Ok, full disclosure, I originally intended to write every week…
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Divorce Recovery: 10 Things to Do if Suddenly in Charge of Your Finances

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Are you somewhere in your divorce recovery, facing your fear…
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#DivorceonHBO Episode 1: Why Frances Will Need a Divorce Coach

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I must admit, as a divorce coach, when I learned that HBO was…

What's the Truth About Rebound Relationships?

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It’s totally normal to think ahead toward new love after a…
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46 Steps to Ensure Your Divorce Recovery

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Divorce recovery describes the all encompassing process of emotional and practical restructuring and healing throughout the phases of divorce. It is a constant, cyclical process in which you are broken down and built back up numerous times until finally, you are whole again. Divorce recovery is painful, yes, but it is also an opportunity.
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Dating After Divorce in 10 Steps

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Dating after divorce is just one aspect of your plan going forward. Good,…

Is Marriage Obsolete?

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Is traditional marriage a thing of the past? Have our dreams…

You WILL Be Happy Again After Your Divorce, Here's How!

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Deep in the throes of all the divorce craziness, you still have…
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Wait, What? Yep, Women Pay Alimony, Too

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Is your soon-to-be ex-husband asking for alimony or spousal maintenance? Actually,…
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Divorce Advice: How to Get Over Paralyzing Fear

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In this follow up article, excerpting highlights from her interview…
Divorce Coaching: The Female Take

Divorce Coaching: The Female Take 

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Read excerpts from SAS Cofounder and Divorce Coach Kimberly Mishkin’s…

Ladies Don't Make This HUGE Mistake When Getting a Divorce

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Divorce is EXPENSIVE and time-consuming. You’ll probably be…
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Divorce Recovery: An Exercise Before Dating

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You were not expecting this so soon, but here you stand, transfixed,…

Why Consider A Divorce Coach?

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Why would you consider a divorce coach? Well, you’ve reluctantly…

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