Getting a Divorce

Getting a Divorce is stressful. Here are some articles to help.

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Can You Be Friends With Your Ex?

Can You Be Friends With Your Ex?

I’m not friends with my Ex. Yes, we’re civil, but there’s a line he isn’t allowed to cross, and I’m very strict about it. We have a gorgeous daughter together, and for that reason, we’ve always been respectful. When she was younger, we’d celebrate her birthday as a ‘family’, and this annual restaurant dinner would…

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What is a 70/30 Custody Schedule?

What is a 70/30 Custody Schedule?

Divorce is hard, but dealing with a divorce and child custody can be overwhelming and emotionally triggering. Let’s face it, this isn’t about splitting your money (though that’s infuriating, too). This is about your children, their future, and your access to them now. Every parent is worried about how to co-parent and make the best…

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What Can Be Used Against You in a Custody Battle?

What Can Be Used Against You in a Custody Battle?

A custody battle is exactly what it sounds like. It is a high-conflict court case where the parties are litigating who should have custody of the children. It can lead to extreme stress, anger, hostility, mistrust in one another, and frequently, mistrust in the judicial system tasked with making and enforcing important decisions for your…

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What to Wear to Court for Divorce Proceedings

What to Wear to Court for Divorce Proceedings

I remember distinctly what I wore to court a quarter of a century ago when my divorce was finalized. It was a simple black just-over-the-knee dress subtly patterned with little pink roses, flesh-colored pantyhose, and sensible black low-heeled pumps. Over the dress, I wore a smart black jacket. I’d cut my hair recently into a…

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Is Alimony Taxable?

Is Alimony Taxable?

You probably would not be reading this page, if you did not find divorce confusing, and even overwhelming. There’s the emotional journey and the black-and-white legal and financial process. Divorce can be especially bewildering when you consider the financial implications, particularly when alimony comes into play. This article will define alimony and elaborate on the…

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What are the Rights of the NonCustodial Parent?

What are the Rights of the NonCustodial Parent?

Divorce is rarely easy – but going through a divorce when you are a mother makes the journey even harsher. Research tells us the top two fears for most women are how their kids will be impacted and how the finances will change. In this article, we will tackle the first concern: your children. Specifically,…

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What are the 5 Advantages of an Uncontested Divorce?

What are the 5 Advantages of an Uncontested Divorce?

Divorce is already an emotional rollercoaster, and when partners cannot agree on the terms, the problems seem insurmountable. It’s so important to try to come to a middle ground where both parties are comfortable with points like shared custody, the sharing of assets, and finances. When partners agree on these important terms, they have an…

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What is Alimony?

What is Alimony?

Divorce can be a lonely and confusing process. No one expects to deal with it or its complications when you initially exchange vows. However, if you go through a divorce, it’s crucial to remember a few things: educate yourself and separate your emotions from the financial aspects. A critical piece to explore if a divorce…

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How to Survive Divorce in 11 Soul-Affirming Ways

How to Survive Divorce in 11 Soul-Affirming Ways

You’ve probably heard that half of all marriages in the US end in divorce. That’s not quite true. It’s 43% of all first marriages end in divorce according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Is it a disease, getting divorced? That’s another article. What matters is that divorce is a fact in modern…

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