Best Advice on Getting Full Child Custody
When you are considering a divorce, one thing every mom thinks about is where her children are going to live. The thought of splitting custody with your Ex can be scary for many mothers. These are your children, and you want to spend as much time with them as possible. Depending on where you live…
Read MoreDivorce Counseling: Is it for You … or Both of You?
In the heart of considering a life-altering event like divorce, where emotions run high and certainty seems a distant memory, finding a grounding force is essential. For some, divorce counseling can provide an anchoring presence, not just as a form of guidance, but as a sanctuary for understanding what is and is not possible, and…
Read MoreAre Divorce Records Public?
In today’s hyperconnected world, we all have privacy concerns. It seems like every website, every purchase, and every conversation is being monitored on the internet. Netflix recently released a documentary about the Ashley Madison hacking scandal. For those living under a rock, Ashley Madison is an online website for married customers seeking an affair. The…
Read MoreWhat is Financial Infidelity? A Guide for Its Afterward
Infidelity, a word often associated with secret romantic affairs, manifests in various forms that breach the trust foundational to any relationship. Beyond the emotional betrayals, there exists a less discussed but equally damaging variant: financial infidelity. This subtle yet profound act of deceit involves the deliberate concealment or mismanagement of finances within a partnership, eroding…
Read MoreDivorced and Dating After 50: What Women Must Know
Embarking on the journey of being divorced and dating after 50 can be a blend of exhilaration and introspection. This chapter in your life is about much more than finding someone new. It’s about rediscovering who you are and embracing the future with (growing) confidence and curiosity. Whether you’re eagerly stepping into the dating scene…
Read MoreUS Alimony Can Vary Over $1K a Month from State to State
If you’re a typical divorcing woman in the U.S., you might get up to $1,381 a month in alimony, or you might get nothing at all. It all depends on your state, according to a new study conducted by Custody X Change. In fact, in 34 states, you don’t even have a formula to predict…
Read MoreHow to Tell Your Child You’re Dating After Divorce
Many children of divorced parents dream that their mom and dad will get back together again. It’s a common thread. The stresses and trauma of a divorce make them envy the kids at school who look as if they are living happily ever after, just like on television. Your children don’t understand that they will…
Read MoreSample Divorce Paperwork, Questions, and Scenarios: What’s Their Value?
When navigating a divorce on your own, without the help of a lawyer, it might feel completely overwhelming. This is especially true if you know your case will go to court. While the legal system can be daunting, there are concrete actions you can take to help yourself feel more confident throughout the process. You…
Read MoreLeaving the Divorce Behind with Solo Travel
I got divorced in 2011. It was difficult, painful, and uncomfortable. Like most people, I wanted to focus on leaving the divorce behind after it was over. I’ve always loved traveling, since long before I was married. I’m no stranger to traveling solo, but it was still an adjustment to travel without my husband. While…
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