US Alimony Can Vary Over $1K a Month from State to State
If you’re a typical divorcing woman in the U.S., you might get up to $1,381 a month in alimony, or you might get nothing at all. It all depends on your state, according to a new study conducted by Custody X Change. In fact, in 34 states, you don’t even have a formula to predict…
Read MoreHow to Tell Your Child You’re Dating After Divorce
Many children of divorced parents dream that their mom and dad will get back together again. It’s a common thread. The stresses and trauma of a divorce make them envy the kids at school who look as if they are living happily ever after, just like on television. Your children don’t understand that they will…
Read MoreSample Divorce Paperwork, Questions, and Scenarios: What’s Their Value?
When navigating a divorce on your own, without the help of a lawyer, it might feel completely overwhelming. This is especially true if you know your case will go to court. While the legal system can be daunting, there are concrete actions you can take to help yourself feel more confident throughout the process. You…
Read MoreLeaving the Divorce Behind with Solo Travel
I got divorced in 2011. It was difficult, painful, and uncomfortable. Like most people, I wanted to focus on leaving the divorce behind after it was over. I’ve always loved traveling, since long before I was married. I’m no stranger to traveling solo, but it was still an adjustment to travel without my husband. While…
Read MoreWhat Happens After You Serve Your Spouse Divorce Papers?
Deciding to serve your spouse generally sparks a mix of feelings – anxiety, determination, and hope. And the biggest question most people have is, “What happens after you serve your spouse divorce papers?” The truth is it’s a bit complicated as it’s a combination of legal formalities and an emotional odyssey. Yes, this can be…
Read MoreWhen to Walk Away After Infidelity
Embarking on a journey through valleys of betrayal and disappointment is undoubtedly daunting. In moments of vulnerability and pain, you might find yourself silently pondering when to walk away after infidelity and even if you should. These questions are heavy with the weight of broken trust and unmet expectations echoing through the hearts of those…
Read MoreDivorce at Different Life Stages for Women
Navigating through divorce at different life stages for women presents a spectrum of challenges and experiences that are unique to each phase of life. Divorce, inherently fraught with emotional complexities and logistical intricacies, takes on varied hues and implications as women traverse their 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s. Each decade marks a distinctive chapter, characterized…
Read MoreHow Do I Manage Divorce on My Own?
In recent times, there’s been a noticeable shift toward couples choosing to handle their divorce on their own. Motivated by a plethora of online resources and tools, many are finding the path to separation more navigatable and cost-effective. But, as with any big life decision, it’s crucial to understand the full picture. Let’s dive into…
Read MoreThe Decisive Value of Decentering Men from Your Life Beyond Divorce
I feel the buzz of excitement from within, in anticipation of the evening fast approaching. Anticipating a great date! I bought a new dress, a stash of alluring makeup, and even tried a new makeup technique. Despite hating it, I also plucked my eyebrows for the occasion. And oh, that perfume with the floral undertones…
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