Contemplating Divorce

Should I divorce? Should I stay for the kids? How will I survive?

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What is a Contested Divorce?

What is a Contested Divorce?

As you think about, or begin the divorce process, you’ve probably heard the words “contested divorce”. This may leave you wondering, what the heck is a contested divorce? Aren’t most divorces adversarial by nature? (Things are ending and chances are you don’t agree on things, terms, or who will get the cat.) If so, isn’t…

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What are the No-Fault Divorce States in the US?

What are the No-Fault Divorce States in the US?

When deciding to file for divorce, most of us feel lost. Divorce isn’t typically part of the marriage plan, but life changes, and you may have to face it. As you learn about the process, you may find the nuances of how to file and the different types of divorces complicated. This article will focus…

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Midlife Divorce: 19 Moves Beyond the Midlife Crisis

Midlife Divorce: 19 Moves Beyond the Midlife Crisis

We’ve all heard the phrase “midlife crisis” uttered in such a way as to explain why a “perfectly good” marriage of many years has suddenly been kicked to the curb. But what is inside this catch-all term that has us nodding our heads as if we understand? And especially, what are the most important things…

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Annulment vs a Divorce: What’s the Difference?

Annulment vs a Divorce: What's the Difference?

In the world of television, many popular shows have storylines where characters play with the idea of annulment. In the hit show Friends, for example, Ross tries to hide the idea of a third divorce by attempting to get an annulment after his whirlwind marriage to Rachel. But aside from what shows up in pop…

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Divorce Counseling: Is it for You … or Both of You?

Divorce Counseling: Is it for You … or Both of You?

In the heart of considering a life-altering event like divorce, where emotions run high and certainty seems a distant memory, finding a grounding force is essential. For some, divorce counseling can provide an anchoring presence, not just as a form of guidance, but as a sanctuary for understanding what is and is not possible, and…

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Are Divorce Records Public?

Are Divorce Records Public?

In today’s hyperconnected world, we all have privacy concerns. It seems like every website, every purchase, and every conversation is being monitored on the internet.  Netflix recently released a documentary about the Ashley Madison hacking scandal. For those living under a rock, Ashley Madison is an online website for married customers seeking an affair. The…

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What is Financial Infidelity? A Guide for Its Afterward

What is Financial Infidelity? A Guide for Its Afterward

Infidelity, a word often associated with secret romantic affairs, manifests in various forms that breach the trust foundational to any relationship. Beyond the emotional betrayals, there exists a less discussed but equally damaging variant: financial infidelity. This subtle yet profound act of deceit involves the deliberate concealment or mismanagement of finances within a partnership, eroding…

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US Alimony Can Vary Over $1K a Month from State to State

US Alimony Can Vary Over $1K a Month from State to State

If you’re a typical divorcing woman in the U.S., you might get up to $1,381 a month in alimony, or you might get nothing at all. It all depends on your state, according to a new study conducted by Custody X Change. In fact, in 34 states, you don’t even have a formula to predict…

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When to Walk Away After Infidelity

When to Walk Away After Infidelity

Embarking on a journey through valleys of betrayal and disappointment is undoubtedly daunting. In moments of vulnerability and pain, you might find yourself silently pondering when to walk away after infidelity and even if you should. These questions are heavy with the weight of broken trust and unmet expectations echoing through the hearts of those…

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