What is a Civil Union?

Two older women sitting together outdoors, representing a committed couple considering a civil union

A rose by any name still smells as sweet, the saying goes. People sometimes talk about “marriage” and “civil union” as if they were the same flower in different colors. They are related, but they are not the same, and the differences matter a great deal if you are trying to understand your legal standing.…

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What If I Can’t Afford a Divorce Attorney?

What If I Can't Afford a Divorce Attorney?

Divorce is hard. It’s stressful, it’s emotionally draining, and it can be expensive. A lot of divorce attorneys ask for an initial retainer somewhere between $2,000 and $20,000, and their hourly rates often run from $300 to $950. On top of ending your marriage, dividing your assets, and raising your children as coparents, the cost…

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Is Child Support Taxable?

Mother and young child standing together inside a train, looking out through the front window during their journey.

What do women not know about child support? And how does it relate to taxes? Most women know that if they are the custodial parent, they are entitled to some amount in basic child support every month. But few understand the potential tax implications associated with child support and spousal maintenance. On the federal level,…

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Why Wives are Unhappy in Marriage: The 5 Most Popular Reasons

Woman standing alone in shallow ocean water at the beach, looking out toward the waves at sunrise or sunset.

Boy meets girl, boy loses girl, boy gets girl back, and together now at last, they live happily ever after. Sound familiar? This male-centered, tried-and-tested formula has been the basis for many a Hollywood movie or romantic comedy. Do you remember watching Sandy and Danny finally get together before flying away in Greased Lightnin’s convertible?…

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Maximizing Your Divorce Settlement with a Forensic Accountant

Magnifying glass examining hidden money and financial documents during a divorce investigation and forensic accounting process.

Going through a divorce can feel emotionally exhausting on its own. Once financial concerns enter the picture, things often become even more overwhelming. Questions about assets, debts, income, and what is actually fair can quickly become complicated. This is especially true when one spouse has handled most of the finances throughout the marriage. This is…

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Healing After a Divorce You Didn’t Want

Cup of lemon tea beside fresh flowers, symbolizing comfort, healing, and new beginnings after divorce

Martha still remembers the defining, shocking moment that completely turned her world upside down. John, her husband of nineteen years, quietly walked into the kitchen that memorable morning as she was waiting for her coffee to brew. He walked up behind her and whispered, “I want a divorce. I can’t live like this anymore.” The…

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Managing Your Living Expenses After Divorce

Hands cutting fabric with scissors, symbolizing budgeting, financial adjustments, and managing living expenses after divorce.

I remember a friend of mine once saying to me, “Divorce sucks!” Of course, she was right in more ways than I could have ever imagined. For I was to learn firsthand, years later, divorce costs us, emotionally and financially. I, as a woman, a wife, a mother, felt a deep sense of failure, but I…

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