36 Things to Do If You Are Thinking About Divorce

Woman walking on beach thinking about divorce

If you are thinking about divorce, your thoughts can fluctuate, ranging from the mere, fleeting imaginings of what life might be like if you were single, to the repetitive, torturous thought process of “Should I or shouldn’t I divorce?” While one end of the spectrum is entirely normal for many people, the other end can…

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Divorce Effects on Children: What You Must Know

Divorce Effects on Children: What You Must Know

Divorce is a massive change for every member of the family. It impacts everyone. We know that as a mom, you want to know how divorce effects your children so you can be there to protect and lessen any negative effects. All children are different and will be affected in different ways, and at the…

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Is an Online Divorce Really Viable?

Is an Online Divorce Really Viable?

Navigating divorces can be a daunting journey, marked by high costs, substantial time investment, and overall complexity. The pandemic prompted a shift in divorce court dynamics. It ushered in an era of virtual hearings and streamlined online protocols for submitting petitions and legal documents. This shift revealed how much easier it can be to navigate…

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The Single Woman’s Guide to Surviving the Holidays

The Single Woman's Guide to Surviving the Holidays

Well, single ladies, we’ve only got about 6 weeks to get ready for Christmas and 2 weeks for Thanksgiving. Since we’re flying solo, with kids or without, divorced or just solitary, it’s time to dive into the Single Woman’s Guide to Surviving the Holidays. Break out your Excel sheets, budget planners, and the Xanax. Oh,…

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What Happens in a Contested Divorce?

What Happens in a Contested Divorce?

Whether you’re thinking about getting a divorce or have started the process, knowing what happens in a contested divorce is a key first step in determining how you should proceed. Your friends, family, and colleagues might have said divorce is time-consuming, expensive, and emotional. This can be true if it is a contested divorce. Both…

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Do Women Regret Divorce?

Do Women Regret Divorce?

Regret is paying a toll over and over again to drive back onto a bridge we’ve already crossed and park there, staring in the rearview mirror at a lane we could have taken.  That doesn’t stop most of us from doing exactly that, though, especially after a divorce. There are countless ways to second-guess ourselves…

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What If I Can’t Afford a Divorce Attorney?

What If I Can't Afford a Divorce Attorney?

Divorce is undeniably a challenging, stressful, and costly process. Many divorce attorneys demand substantial initial retainers ranging from $2,000 to $20,000. They also charge high hourly billing rates spanning from $300 to $950. As if ending your marriage, dividing assets, and raising your children as coparents weren’t enough to bear, the financial burden of affording…

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How to Plan for a Divorce

How to Plan for a Divorce

Deciding to plan for a divorce is significant and emotionally charged. If you find yourself on this precipice, the thoughts ricocheting in your head are probably signaling a need for courage (because of your fear), a need for empowerment (because of your vulnerability), and a need for preparation (because, just where the heck are you…

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Dating a Man Who is Going Through a Divorce

Dating a Man Who is Going Through a Divorce

This is one of those relationship scenarios for which I may not have set a great example, but I did become an excellent cautionary tale. I just didn’t realize I’d be telling it that way 30 years later. Date a man going through a divorce? Yep, I sure did. And that was before the term…

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What Does the Process of Divorce Look Like?

What Does the Process of Divorce Look Like?

If the idea of getting a divorce has crossed your mind, and you’re feeling a bit lost about how to get started, know that you’re not the only one in this situation. Divorce is far from being a simple matter, it’s complex and demanding. Every divorce follows a basic path. The process begins with filing…

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