36 Things to Do If You Are Thinking About Divorce

Woman walking on beach thinking about divorce

If you are thinking about divorce, your thoughts can fluctuate, ranging from the mere, fleeting imaginings of what life might be like if you were single, to the repetitive, torturous thought process of “Should I or shouldn’t I divorce?” While one end of the spectrum is entirely normal for many people, the other end can…

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My Sexless Marriage is Killing Me

My Sexless Marriage is Killing Me

A “sexless marriage” can mean different things to different people. But the definition that is the most damaging is the one involving a lack of physical intimacy that leaves both or one partner disconnected and unsatisfied. The sense of a “disconnect” is key to this, because a couple could certainly agree to a sexless marriage…

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Divorced and Dating After 60: We’re Pickier

Divorced and Dating After 60: We’re Pickier

It was looking for love long ago that probably got us to this place today, but now that we are divorced and considering dating after 60, we’re feeling differently about what we’re searching for. Chances are it’s not the same as before, because we are different. Oh, we know, we’ve been saying “We’re different” since…

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Are Divorce Records Public?

Are Divorce Records Public?

Are divorce records public? It boggles the imagination that something as private as a marriage, and then the personal decision to dissolve it, could be open (potentially) for public review or discourse. It’s only natural that we’d have privacy concerns. In our hyperconnected world, companies and platforms constantly monitor every website you visit, every purchase…

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Divorce Mediation v. Arbitration: What You Must Know

Divorce Mediation v. Arbitration: What You Must Know

No two families are the same. Similarly, the best way to solve a dispute for one family may not be viable or realistic for another.  If you are contemplating divorce or wondering what the best way is to resolve a post-divorce dispute involving a divorce or family law matter (child support, spousal maintenance, or equitable…

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How Long Does a Divorce Take?

How Long Does a Divorce Take?

Divorce. It is most likely the single word that you never thought would become part of your world or reality. After all, when we decide to get married, most of us are making the commitment for the long haul. No matter what life has waiting for us, we say our vows and promise to stand…

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What is Parallel Parenting?

What is Parallel Parenting?

Coparenting can often feel like you’re walking in a maze, and not exactly sure where it will lead. You get up every day ready to conquer the world, but you also know you’re likely to run into some unforeseen obstacles along the way. This is where parallel parenting can be so valuable. If you’ve never…

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Is a Contested Divorce for You?

Is a Contested Divorce for You?

If you are dealing with divorce, you’ve probably heard the term “contested divorce” and how you should try to avoid one. A contested divorce occurs when spouses do not reach an agreement on the most important issues of a divorce. This may include a disagreement on the grounds for the divorce, custody, visitation, child support,…

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How to Handle Divorce as a Woman

How to Handle Divorce as a Woman

I know about hindsight – that feeling that if I’d known, I could have tackled a situation so much better. This guide on how to handle divorce as a woman will give you critical information upfront so that, after the fact, you don’t need to wonder what it could have been like if only you’d…

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