Contemplating Divorce

Should I divorce? Should I stay for the kids? How will I survive?

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Divorce Porn: 4 Types That Are Almost Never a Good Thing

Divorce porn is living vicariously through another's divorce.

Ever wonder why we pay so much attention to how Angie and Brad split up? Or if Beyonce and Jay Z are really going to stick it out? Or, will she do it this time? The world is watching …Will Melania take 45er’s hand as they board Air Force One? Turns out, we are secretly fascinated, drawn, repelled…

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What You Need to Know About Working with a Divorce Coach (the Benefits … and the Downsides)

Working with a divorce coach ... the good and the bad

As you navigate through the thoughts of divorce, dealing with divorce, or recovering from divorce, a divorce coach might be your best source of comprehensive support. That’s because an experienced divorce coach knows divorce is not just a legal or financial dilemma.  It’s a whole life challenge that requires your making diverse but smart decision—and…

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What You Must Know About Deciding to Divorce

woman confused if she should divorce or not

On some level, just landing on this page, reading this blog means a part of you is seriously contemplating divorce. Yet, it’s just a part of you. Choosing between deciding to divorce or working on your marriage is extremely confusing. There are so many unknowns and what-if scenarios racing through your mind that it’s difficult…

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How to Hire A Divorce Lawyer (The Right One for You)

learning how to hire a divorce lawyer

Whether you’re contemplating getting a divorce or ready to act, your first step is NOT to make any immediate decisions but to get educated on what the divorce process looks like and how to hire a divorce lawyer. You have choices, and you need to understand what they are. Divorce laws can change quite a…

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Contemplating Divorce Can Keep You Spinning

contemplating divorce can feel like you are spinning

Recently, when I was unpacking boxes and settling into my new house, I came across something that seemed to speak to me from a different lifetime.  It was my old journal, written years ago, during the months leading up to my decision to get divorced:  “I feel as if I am living in the twilight…

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#MeToo. In My Own Marriage

#Metoo in calligraphy

I’m loath to write this piece but I feel like I have to… I don’t want to, because it’s embarrassing, and because I’m afraid he’ll read it. But I have to — I know there are women out there who are being sexually harassed by their husbands this very minute and they don’t even know…

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