My Letter to Janay Rice on Her Abusive Marriage.

“Kim, it’s brutal,” my friend warned me. So I braced myself as I watched the latest footage of former Ravens player Ray Rice knocking his wife out cold in an elevator. I have to admit I wasn’t all that shocked though. The only thing I said was, “I hope Janay doesn’t pay for this.” When…

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What the Hell’s Wrong with Conscious Uncoupling?

The challenge of coping with divorce can be like putting a puzzle back together

We all made fun when Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin first announced their Conscious Uncoupling.  The UK Guardian called it “deluded tosh.”  The Daily News said it’s a “pretentious break-up phrase”. And individuals around the world chimed in with scathing comments and mocking tweets and ranting posts. But now with the news suggesting that Gwyneth…

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Your Shocking Post-Divorce Behavior

listening to divorce advice when you're ready

We all know her. She’s that crazy divorcée.  But she’s not interested in your opinion or your divorce advice because “how would you know??” She’s fine. In fact, she’s better than ever! She’s just signed up for THE BEST tantric workshop, a class she’s always “longed to do” but never had the time for. You…

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